Since Suez, France and Britain have often fundamentally differed, in large part because they took diametrically opposing strategic lessons from that affair. The UK learned to never leave the side of the United States, giving the special relationship a renewed lease of life. The French learned to never trust the British nor rely on the Americans.

Former British prime minister Harold Macmillan later suggested that Britain should resemble the Athenians advising the Roman Empire. Charles de Gaulle, the former French president, adopted an attitude like that of the Spartans defying the Persian Empire. The general subsequently blocked British entry into the European Economic Community (which later became the EU), developed an independent nuclear deterrent, and took France out of the NATO military command.

Much has happened since then, with multiple nuances and contradictions for historians to research. But the Franco-British rift has never fully healed, and current (sometimes divisive) debates about NATO and EU defense policy reflect these fluctuations from entente cordiale to entente glaciale.

The EU could develop a defense policy only because France and the UK agreed that it should, at Saint-Malo in 1998. But the momentum behind this initiative was stopped by the 2003 Iraq War, which bitterly divided Paris and London. As a result, EU-NATO cooperation was hampered for years.

New leadership in both countries brought fresh ideas and a desire to repair relations. Former French president Nicolas Sarkozy reversed de Gaulle’s decision and rejoined the NATO military command in 2009, and he and former British prime minister David Cameron signed the Lancaster House treaties in 2010 to deepen bilateral military cooperation.

Moreover, London and Paris not only agreed on paper but were also prepared to act together, leading the charge for what became NATO’s intervention in Libya in early 2011. For a moment, it seemed that the curse of Suez had lifted.

But Paris could still not convince London of the merits of EU defense, and that policy floundered. Cameron, increasingly under pressure from Euroskeptic members of parliament to hold an EU membership referendum, could not be seen to approve anything that smacked of a Euro-army, such as an EU headquarters for operations.

Since the Brexit decision in June, Suez-legacy instincts are being reinforced. In a speech on October 6, French President François Hollande said, “There are countries – European countries – that think the United States will always be there to protect them. . . . Those European countries must be told . . . that if they don’t defend themselves they will no longer be defended.” Hollande continued: “The United States no longer has the same idea of defence protection [and] Europeans must realize that . . . they must also be a political power with a defence capability.”

In contrast, British Defense Secretary Michael Fallon said on September 5, “That Trans-Atlantic link remains fundamental to the UK and to the whole of Europe. . . . Given the overlap in NATO and EU membership, it’s surely in all our interests to ensure the EU doesn’t duplicate existing structures. . . . Our Trans-Atlantic alliance works for the UK and for Europe making us stronger and better able to meet the threats and challenges of the future.”

If these Franco-British positions harden and cause a political rift in transatlantic relations, it seems that NATO and the EU will continue to be burdened with the curse of Suez for the foreseeable future. But it need not be such a binary choice. Similar to the way former U.S. president Dwight Eisenhower ended the Franco-British adventure in 1956, the attitude of the next U.S. president will be decisive—whoever she or he is.

The United States needs allies that are able both to contribute more to NATO (like the UK) and to act autonomously if necessary (like France via the EU or in other ways). As Jeremy Shapiro from the European Council on Foreign Relations has noted, “Europeans would be wise to take more proactive measures to visibly increase the burdens they bear within the alliance and their capacity for independent and cooperative action under the next US president.”

The next U.S. president, therefore, would be wise to encourage a rapprochement of views between the UK and France on the relationship between EU defense policy and NATO. Washington should also push London and Paris to jointly lead monitoring of the implementation of the EU-NATO cooperation program agreed to at NATO’s Warsaw summit in July 2016. This would help ensure that the union and the alliance work more closely and effectively together.

In the end, the curse of Suez will be lifted only when France and the United Kingdom realize that they are both right.

Daniel Keohane is a senior researcher at the Center for Security Studies at ETH Zürich.